IF

IF

If—

BY RUDYARD KIPLING

(‘Brother Square-Toes’—Rewards and Fairies)

If you can keep your head when all about you
    Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
    But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
    Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
    And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;
    If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
    And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
    Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
    And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
    And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
    And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
    To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
    Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
    Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
    If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
    With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
    And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!
You Seen Her ?

You Seen Her ?

 

Online dating ? Forget About It!

If I were asked, eh johnny! What you Looking For?
I would say “what you mean?

You know, in a girl! What you looking for, what you want out if it?

“Well …” my reply would begin

 

I need a partner, someone to hang with, someone whose got goals and I can be a #guide for her to completion. She is rich enough to buy what she desires, but humble enough to accept what I bring to her. Smart enough to know snakes from friends and wise enough to know where to place partner among friends. A good Heart that waking up next to her makes me Praise God, though humble in her actions to keep a trick from tricking.

 

Spell It Out!

Physically, she is in a good enough shape for me to be able to #cradle her. Just about my height with them heels, so without’em she looks just right.

 

Culture

A culture other than what I have been raised in, so I could learn new knowledge. Although in the matters of making family, it is conformity that the elders recommend.

 

Religion

Believe in the Absolute Singularity of God and the actuality of The Day of Judgement. The finer details can be relegated to better conversations, and to walk away is an option always available.

 

Plan

Agree to a covenant so we can go at it!
I really do want it to be different than the past before, kids are an option with marriage before.

What Do I Have To Offer

Just Guidance. And all that I like.

 

Terms & Conditions

  • Belief in Absolute Singularity of God and the Day of Judgement
  • Not to have Sexual Relations with Anyone
  • Not to Slander ( invented between arms and legs )
  • Not to Steal
  • Not to Get an Abortion
  • In a matter of disagreement, either openly separate or genuinely follow

 

Life is but a Day Granted.
Spend it Wisely, Happily, and without Regrets

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